Of all the changes that you could possibly undertake, there is one that is going to be most worthwhile in the long run. As you’ll find, most of the changes that you need to make may be fairly trivial, i.e. putting down the toilet lid once you’re done, but this one change is by no [...]
In order to save a marriage, very often changes need to be made. Without a doubt, identifying the problem helps but it’s all rather pointless if you’re not going to be able to make an effort, and actually change the problems that ended up causing you and your spouse to go head to head with [...]
When most people are told that they need to ‘change’ to help save their marriage, they often get defensive from the start. Unfortunately, this is only natural, after all, the first thing that probably shoots through our heads when we hear that we need to change is: What? But it’s not our fault! Frankly, there [...]
One person can change, but ultimately it takes two to tango – as the saying goes. Just as you probably weren’t solely responsible for the problems in your marriage, you aren’t solely responsible for the solution either. While initially it may suffice that you take the first initiative and show your spouse that it is [...]
Consider this: Which way do you prefer to pull out a plaster that has become firmly stuck on? Would you rather just yank it out in one swift motion, so that the pain comes all at once. Or would you rather carefully and painstakingly tug at it bit by bit hoping to remove it in [...]

